Hoping everyone will keep BHS and her daughter in their prayers for strength and comfort after the sudden death of her ex (her daughter's father), with whom she had an amicable relationship and who loved his daughter and granddaughter dearly.  He had been fighting cancer very recently and was not doing very well, but it was still a very sudden occurance (heart attack) and it has hit their entire family very hard.  I know BHS is a very private person, and I hope she won't mind my sharing, but she has a heart the size of Texas and positive thoughts, vibes and prayers will really help her during this time.